This coming Sunday, Nov. 10- we will be celebrating 20 years of posts. I'm going to share some of the things that have been coming in. Still time to send me comments - jayopsis@gmail.com
Lee Clements is such a special person. Lives now in Arizona and is a retired, special agent of the NCIS. He has a great podcast: NCIS- Reports from the Field
I first met Jay Mathews about 42 years ago when we both arrived as “invited walk-ons” for the University of Alabama football team. It was 1982, a different era for Crimson Tide football. I can’t say how today’s walk-ons are treated, but I suspect they have it a lot better than we did back then. My reason for walking on was clear: Coach Paul “Bear” Bryant. I imagine Jay felt the same, but we really had no idea what we were in for.
After introductions, Jay and I quickly became friends. We both hailed from rival high schools in Birmingham—Jay from Banks High School and I from Erwin High School. This rivalry brought a sense of pride and respect for each other, especially when we saw familiar faces like Darrick Slaughter, one of Jay’s high school teammates and now a scholarship player on our team. Darrick and I had known each other since elementary school in Center Point, Alabama, which made our small world feel a bit closer.
As walk-ons, Jay and I soon realized we were not treated like the scholarship players. Jay has a great story that captures this. When we were in line to receive our equipment, Jay initially received brand-new gear, while the rest of us were given old, reconditioned items—sometimes even gear dating back to the 1970s. Excited, Jay reached the end of the line and proudly told Coach Willie Meadows his name. But Coach Meadows checked his list and looked up, confused. “Jay Mathews… you’re not on this list. Are you one of the scholarship players?” Jay replied, “No, sir. I’m a walk-on.” Coach Meadows’ face turned bright red as he ordered Jay to hand over the new equipment and go to the end of the line. He then received the same outdated gear as the rest of us, equipment that felt like a hall of fame tribute, with names like “Namath” written on thigh pads and a helmet from 1975. After that first day, we knew exactly where we stood. But at 18, we were ready to take on the challenge.
This memory resurfaced for me while reading Jay’s blog, Jayopsis, which I’ve followed since 2010. One of my favorite stories he shared is about “the Shark,” one of our legendary walk-on teammates. Our squad was a hodgepodge of players unlikely to play varsity games, yet we had our own victories and camaraderie. We finished the season 2-2, with wins against Marion Military Institute and the army team at Fort Benning, Georgia, and losses to Marion and Livingston University (now the University of West Alabama). LU even dressed varsity players to face us, including an All-Gulf South Conference running back who gave us a run for our money. Jay became something of a legend that day after landing a forearm strike that left him with a proud scar—a story he recounts in his blog, which I highly recommend.
Beyond the laughs, Jay’s blog has given me deep reflections on life and faith. I was not the strongest Christian back then, but Jay’s influence helped me rediscover my relationship with God. During our sophomore year, we became roommates at Crimson Tower Apartments, where my wall sported beer posters while Jay’s had posters of Jesus. Though he never pushed his beliefs, I watched his daily example and found myself reading an old Bible. Noticing this, Jay later gifted me a Bible, which I still have and have carried with me around the world during my career as a Special Agent with the Naval Criminal Investigative Service (NCIS).
I believe God places people in our lives to teach us valuable lessons, and looking back, I see that the ones who shaped me most deeply—my father, Jay, and coaches like Gary White, Coach Bryant, and Ray Perkins—were all Godly men. I didn’t always walk closely with God, especially during my years with NCIS, but He never left me. In 2006, while deployed to Baghdad for counterinsurgency operations against Al Qaeda, God reached out to me again through a Catholic priest who ventured out of the Green Zone daily to serve destitute Christians, often risking his life. Though we never spoke, his bravery touched my heart as if God Himself were speaking to me. I’ll never forget a photo of him in Stars and Stripes, showing local Muslims helping him return the cross atop his restored church in the Karada section of Baghdad—a church that Al Qaeda had destroyed years earlier.
I want to thank Jay for his continued friendship and spiritual encouragement, both in person and through his blog. Jay, you may not always get the recognition you deserve, but your dedication and wisdom mean the world to many of us. Keep up the good work with Lisa, your daughters, and their families, and please keep those wonderful photos of your grandchildren coming. God bless.